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    January 08

    用华丽丽的姿态迎接09年

    昨晚看了朱军主持的《艺术人生》。作为08年回顾的一期特殊节目,他们邀请了几位文化艺术代表人士如康红雷、于丹、郎朗等,并让每个人用俩字概括个人对08年的回忆。当白岩松在诠释自己概括的“幸福”俩字时,提到了梁漱溟先生写的一本书。其中写道人的一生必须处理好三件事,且它们之间的顺序是不能打乱的。第一,要处理好人与物之间的关系;第二,是人与人之间的关系;第三,就是人与自我内心的关系。

          不错,在一步步成长旅途中,我们曾经如此强烈得渴望对财富和物质的拥有,那占有的欲望同青春期的荷尔蒙一样旺盛。然后,我们迈入社会,一头扎入那比蜘蛛网还繁密、复杂的的社会关系网,精心编织着自己的人际网:请老板同事唱KTV,跟朋友出去旅游,参加亲戚的婚礼。当我们不再惦念着老往外跑时,当我们在外头思念祖国、家乡和家里人时,我们便开始回归自我,停下匆忙的脚步,静心回想自己最初的梦想和怀揣那些梦想时的幸福感。

          那时年少,我们曾经对自己发誓或对朋友许诺说,将来总有那么一天我会实现这样那样的梦想。当青春不再,记忆中的梦想已被时间和现实冲刷而去,我们忘了当初是为何而出发。于是我们开始思考自己是否还依然拥有年少时清亮的眼睛和无以言明的幸福感。那么这一刻或许就是我们曾经期盼的那一天:我们愤怒,但学会了感恩;我们质疑,而也学着相信;我们失望,同时建立着希望。

          2008年对我意味着“改变”,地理位置的更换、社会身份的转变、自我心态的调整、未来计划的改变。而我自己和身边朋友的个人生活同今年的中国一样经历这改变的动荡,有好也有坏,有峰顶也有谷底。而在这些改变中所迸发出的希望是毋庸置疑的,因为我开始相信个人潜质只有在矛盾及恶劣的状况下才能得以完全释放。

          于是,在这鼠牛交接的过程中,我对08年的总结是: take a chance, make a change, 对09年的期盼是:face the change, take the challenge. 就让我用华丽丽的姿态迎接牛年的到来吧!

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    Haiyin Guwrote:
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